Capturing the Friedmans

Capturing the Friedmans

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Capturing the Friedmans

Arnold Friedman, David Friedman, Elaine Friedman, Howard Friedman, Jesse Friedman

The Friedmans are a seemingly typical, upper-middle-class Jewish family whose world is instantly transformed when the father and his youngest son are arrested and charged with shocking and horrible cr...( read more  read more... )imes. Caught up in hysteria and with their community in an uproar, the family undergoes a media onslaught. The film inquires not just into the life of a family but into a community, a legal system, and an era.

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  • September 29, 2009
    Shocking documentary, filmed almost by mistake as Andrew Jarecki was doing a film about kids entertainers at the time. Don't watch alone as you will want someone to talk about it with straight after!
  • August 9, 2009
    Umm... I don't really quite know what to say. Interesting? Odd?
  • May 20, 2009
    It?s dvd cover describes this documentary as ?thought provoking?. Even the most open minded of people are probably thinking ?why?? this seems like an open and shut case.

    As the documentary unfolds, you realise just how complicated the case actually is, how the family appears ...( read more)to show biased support to the family members accused of these unthinkable crimes, how they filmed themselves continuously through years as a family ? (in fact supplying most of the footage on this documentary), how the evidence is challenged and what in fact is or isn't true in connection with the case.

    Questions pop into mind throughout the documentary, many are answered within the film, others have been answered in the very lengthly special features and of course there may be questions that will never be answered.
  • February 14, 2009
    First-time filmmaker Andrew Jarecki, who was a cofounder of Moviefone (yes, that Moviefone), set out to make a documentary about the best clown in New York City, David Friedman. Slowly, however, Jarecki's interests began to divert when David brought up his family's past with grea...( read more)t hesitance. Suddenly, the story once about a clown became a story about a family crumbling, the incompetence of the legal system, and the psychology of communities.

    In 1987, police officers busted down the door of the Friedman house in the wealthy area of Great Neck, New York, and charged Arnold Friedman, a computer teacher, of child molestation. Not only did Arnold have hidden stacks of adolescent pornography in the house, it had been said that Arnold and his son, Jesse, raped the children Arnold tought from home. One former student recalls a gruesome game of Leap Frog in which Arnold and Jesse would make children strip down so that they could penetrate each of them as they leaped from boy-to-boy. Anyone thinking critically will have problems with this story already. How did this information take so long to surface? There wasn't traces of blood on the clothing of the boys? How, exactly, do you viciously rape dozens of children in a classroom environment and send them home to unsuspecting parents?

    David, the clown, was an obsessive documentarian and recorded his family fall apart under the pressure and uncertainty of this legal battle. Arnold's wife, Elaine, is surprised by the revelation and doesn't dismiss it as quickly as the children do. Because of this, she's the outcast and the traitor of the family. We watch home videos of Elaine and the children screaming at each other, with Arnold mostly walking around looking miserable and guilty, and realize just how significant and unique this piece is.

    I love documentaries, but I will admit that this one made me uncomfortable at times. There's something about the scene where David reveals his video diary to the public that made me cringe. He starts the tape off by telling us that nobody but him is permitted to see this footage. He then goes on to weep and pour his heart out to what he anticipated as only an audience of one. That voyeurism will never be comfortable to watch, however this story is so fascinating that everytime we want to pull back we just get sucked further in.

    The reason that "Capturing the Friedmans" lingered with it's audiences to such an extent (there are stories of people not leaving the theater so that they could discuss the film) is that it's not conclusive. We'll never know what happened in the Friedman basement, and it's impossible to know just who to trust in the film. There's a scene near the end where Jesse and his lawyer give talking head segments that are completely contradictory. That's pretty much how the rest plays out. To every argument, there is an easy rebuttal. "Capturing the Friedmans" is challenging and frustrating, however it's such a fascinating story that it's impossible to overlook. NetFlix members can watch it on Instant View.
  • September 28, 2007
    Harrowing and thought provoking. Hard to review since I was left on the fence. A documentary about a possible child molester, that looks at both the family involved and the police/lawyers. Soooo well edited with old and new footage, and as honest as it can be, but still a gritty ...( read more)subject to digest. Personally, I hate the guy. See the DVD extras to make up your own mind. Heavy stuff.
  • December 15, 2009
    OMG I haz this from the mailz.
  • November 12, 2009
    Best Documentary Feature 2003
  • September 20, 2009
    another strange one. a Mocumentary that was somewhat enticing. possibly too long. about family disfuctions in new york. quite an upper-middle-class New York style film. very jewish. very OK.
  • August 14, 2009
    Well done documentary that leaves you with as many questions as answers. I don't know how they were able to make this film without demonizing the principals. Home video footage makes the story.
  • May 28, 2009
    Shattering documentary of a family on a path to hell. innocent or guilty? The film makes it impossible to decide.

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