In the Bedroom (2001)
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Character actor and noted photographer Todd Field made his directorial debut with this emotionally powerful drama, which earned enthusiastic reviews at the 2001 Sundance Film Festival. Frank Fowler (Nick Stahl) is a handsome and amiable young man who has recently graduated from high school and is… More Character actor and noted photographer Todd Field made his directorial debut with this emotionally powerful drama, which earned enthusiastic reviews at the 2001 Sundance Film Festival. Frank Fowler (Nick Stahl) is a handsome and amiable young man who has recently graduated from high school and is spending the summer working as a lobster fisherman before heading off to college in the fall. Frank is also involved with Natalie (Marisa Tomei), an attractive woman ten years his senior who is separated from her husband Richard (William Mapother), though their divorce has not yet been finalized. Frank's parents, Matt (Tom Wilkinson) and Ruth (Sissy Spacek) wonder if it's wise for their son to be pursuing a romance that he won't be able to continue in a few months; Matt trusts Frank and leaves him to make his own decisions, while Ruth quietly but firmly registers her objections. One day, Richard snaps, and breaks into Natalie's home; when he discovers Frank is there, he viciously kills him. The wheels of justice turn in an unexpected direction, and Richard is released on bail, free to go his own way as he awaits his trial. Matt and Ruth are both deeply traumatized by the event; while Matt tries to deal with his hurt by retreating into his work and avoiding his feelings, Ruth instead becomes increasingly withdrawn, losing interest in her job as a music teacher and spending her nights chain smoking in front of the television. In the Bedroom was adapted from the short story Killings by Andre Dubus. ~ Mark Deming, Rovi
- Rating, Runtime
- R, 2 hr. 18 min.
- Directed By
- Todd Field
- Written By
- Todd Field, Rob Festinger
- Genres
- Art House & International, Drama
- In Theaters
- Nov 23, 2001 Wide
- On DVD
- Aug 13, 2002
- Studio
- Miramax Films
Critic Reviews
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Jay Boyar, Orlando Sentinel
So emotionally pure and rigorous that you're more than willing to go along with it.
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Desson Thomson, Washington Post
The story and direction are powerful enough. But it's the acting that takes In the Bedroom higher.
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Peter Howell, Toronto Star
Lingers in the mind, suffusing melancholy with the fateful pall of dread that hangs over all of life's pleasures.
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Edward Guthmann, San Francisco Chronicle
Field has a talent for drawing us directly into his characters' lives and making us feel what they feel.
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Emanuel Levy, EmanuelLevy.Com
It's tempting to compare this film to Ordinary People, since both deal with the reaction of upper-middle class family to the accidental death of their son, though new movie is more immediate, emotional and ambiguous.
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Jeffrey Overstreet, Looking Closer
The real story is in how the marriage is strengthened or harmed by the way each spouse responds to what's happening.
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Thomas Delapa, Boulder Weekly
As top-drawer as the acting is, I simply can't buy the laboriously plotted revenge ending, which seems to have crawled out of Perry Mason's attic.
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David Nusair, Reel Film Reviews
...one of those rare films that so vividly paints a picture of a community, that afterwards you feel as though you've been there...
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Judith Egerton, Courier-Journal (Louisville, KY)
Few things are more sorrowful than a couple in a house of mourning with nothing but a wall of silence between them.
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Featured Audience Ratings
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Eric S
Analogous title for a flm that deals with this state in various ways. Sissy Spacek, Tom Wilkinson, and Marisa Tomei shine in this dismal tale of devastation in a Maine lobster town. First-time director Todd Field did a brilliant job portraying the loss, rage, and desire for revenge… More
Analogous title for a flm that deals with this state in various ways. Sissy Spacek, Tom Wilkinson, and Marisa Tomei shine in this dismal tale of devastation in a Maine lobster town. First-time director Todd Field did a brilliant job portraying the loss, rage, and desire for revenge with the help of exceptional acting performances, and the observation of the taciturn anguish so readily available in our everyday lives. -
Dan S
An expertly crafted film concerning a family dealing with grief. Tom Wilkinson impresses yet again, in his most accomplished performance yet as a respected man of a small town in Maine who feels he must avenge the terrible act committed against his son. The performances are all… More
An expertly crafted film concerning a family dealing with grief. Tom Wilkinson impresses yet again, in his most accomplished performance yet as a respected man of a small town in Maine who feels he must avenge the terrible act committed against his son. The performances are all top-notch, capped off with an arresting last thirty minutes of the movie that prove to be extremely well written and plotted. Although at times it appears to be a little too slow-moving, if you concentrate on the setting, characters, and how the story is told, you should be captivated. -
Alice S
This film is nigh perfect until 1/3 of the way through, when it starts trying too hard to portray the subtlety of a grieving family. The fights - while magnificently acted - are completely unmotivated. Ruth claims Matt never wanted to talk about the incident, but it's not as if… More
This film is nigh perfect until 1/3 of the way through, when it starts trying too hard to portray the subtlety of a grieving family. The fights - while magnificently acted - are completely unmotivated. Ruth claims Matt never wanted to talk about the incident, but it's not as if she ever tried talking either. It's a cop-out to say that she is confused with grief and doesn't know what she's saying. Even so, the film would need more development to come to that realization. THEN the climax. Come on! Matt is not the killing kind, and the plan is full of holes! This film attempts a conscionable killing ala Woody Allen, but they neglect to properly build the motives, the atmosphere, and the aftermath. -
Leigh R
Well done and great cast. -
Mason W
In The Bedroom, is a very strong ensemble cast of a film. Sissy Spacek, Marisa Tomei, and Tom Wilkinson. The movie centers around a small town that has many secrets such as a younger man (Nick Stahl) having an affair with an older woman (Tomei) whom is married. Her hsuband is an… More
In The Bedroom, is a very strong ensemble cast of a film. Sissy Spacek, Marisa Tomei, and Tom Wilkinson. The movie centers around a small town that has many secrets such as a younger man (Nick Stahl) having an affair with an older woman (Tomei) whom is married. Her hsuband is an abusive man and this tells a story of how all people deal with what is going on in the bedroom..... -
Manu G
Supposely this movie was nominated for best picture and I really dont know why cause it wasn't a big deal except the beauty of Marisa Tomei. When a film with such emotional resonance and visual poise as In the Bedroom makes it to the screen, it seems an unexpected gift meant to… More
Supposely this movie was nominated for best picture and I really dont know why cause it wasn't a big deal except the beauty of Marisa Tomei. When a film with such emotional resonance and visual poise as In the Bedroom makes it to the screen, it seems an unexpected gift meant to remind us of the medium's possibility for sensitivity and epiphany. First-time director Todd Field, who adapted the film from a story by Andre Dubus with screenwriter Rob Festinger, quietly observes the loss, rage, and inexorable desire for revenge that follows the murder of a 21-year-old son. The film opens with Frank (Nick Stahl), back from college for the summer, taking up with Natalie (Marisa Tomei), a slightly older, sexually alluring woman with two boys and an estranged husband prone to violence. It is the tender portrayal of love between Frank and his parents, even as Frank and Natalie's relationship reveals the prejudices of all involved, that makes the subsequent anguish of the film so acute. Matt and Ruth Fowler (Tom Wilkinson and Sissy Spacek), middle-class denizens of a Maine lobster town where everyone knows each other, toil through weeks of devastation and blame following Frank's murder before their outrage obliterates all else. Field's exact handling of jealousy, class division, and grief is abetted by career-highlight performances from Wilkinson and Spacek. -
Michael S
painstakingly real. -
Tim S
There are a couple of really powerful scenes, like that fucking slap. I love you, Marisa. -
Jennifer X
YAWN. This is one of those movies that slowly builds up and builds up and climaxes with...absolutely nothing. It has big names and so-called "great" acting but doesn't deliver at all. Inconsistent piece of crap. -
Luke B
One of the purest and most perfect films ever to be made. A real subtle look into the workings of an aging couple after tragedy strikes. The film boils with intense emotions without a single bubble coming to the surface. The performances and dialogue are restrained until the… More
One of the purest and most perfect films ever to be made. A real subtle look into the workings of an aging couple after tragedy strikes. The film boils with intense emotions without a single bubble coming to the surface. The performances and dialogue are restrained until the characters and audience can no longer take it. Heart pounding, grim and uneasy. Every scene is expertly crafted whether it be the lobster metaphor at the very beginning or the heart breaking scene as Wilkinson takes down a swing set. Stunning, real and quiet, a film that demands respect and deserves all it's praise. -
jay n
Dark story with superior acting. Sissy Spacek was robbed of the oscar for what is one of best performances. -
Nate Z
[font=Arial][color=darkred]'In the Bedroom' hits all the right notes of agonizing pain, devastation and loss. The heart of the film is on the grief encompassing Matt and Ruth Fowler (Tom Wilkinson and Sissy Spacek) over the loss of their son. The Fowlers are well regarded in… More
[font=Arial][color=darkred]'In the Bedroom' hits all the right notes of agonizing pain, devastation and loss. The heart of the film is on the grief encompassing Matt and Ruth Fowler (Tom Wilkinson and Sissy Spacek) over the loss of their son. The Fowlers are well regarded in their cozy New England town. Matt is a flourishing local doctor and Ruth teaches a chorus of local high school girls.[/color][/font] [font=Arial][color=darkred]'In the Bedroom' opens with Frank Fowler (Nick Stahl) chasing his older girlfriend Natalie (Marisa Tomei) across an open grassy field. Frank is a budding architecture student home for the summer and thinking of prolonging his time so he can stay together with Natalie. Frank and Natalie have a distinct age divide but also seem to have been given different lots in life. She has a pair of boys from her abusive husband Richard (William Mapother) that she is finalizing a divorce from. Richard is hopeful he can reconcile with Natalie if he just gets another chance, but Natalie is stern in her refusal.[/color][/font] [font=Arial][color=darkred]Ruth sees the relationship as a detriment to her son's future. She's even more upset that Matt is so casual with their son dating an older, working-class mother.[/color][/font] [font=Arial][color=darkred]Frank rushes over to calm Natalie after another of Richard's outbursts of violence has left her house in shambles. She rushes her children upstairs just as Richard returns back. He manages to sneak in through a back door and confronts Frank in their kitchen, shooting and killing him.[/color][/font] [font=Arial][color=darkred]What should seem like a clear-cut case begins to unspool. Natalie admits she didn't actually see the gun fire and the charges are dropped from murder to manslaughter. Richard is released on bail and free to stroll around occasionally bumping into the grieving and outraged Fowlers.[/color][/font] [font=Arial][color=darkred]The majority of the film is the aftermath of the murder and the strain it puts upon Matt and Ruth and their marriage. Beforehand jealousy, anger, and bitterness would simply sit but slowly the tension begins to bubble to the surface. Ruth holds resentment and blames the leniency of Matt for the death of their son. Matt tries to get out of the house as much as possible, even if it means sitting in his car in their driveway at night.[/color][/font] [font=Arial][color=darkred]One of the most harrowing scenes of 'In the Bedroom' is also its emotional and acting centerpiece. After the mounting frustration with justice, Ruth and Matt explode into an argument that had slowly been building long before their son's death. This is the first time they have truly talked about the whole situation and accusations fly like bullets in their first emotional confrontation.[/color][/font] [font=Arial][color=darkred]'In the Bedroom' could have easily fallen into the area of sticky made-for-TV land, but the exceptional performances all around by the cast and the deft and studied direction never allow it to falter.[/color][/font] [font=Arial][color=darkred]Spacek ('Carrie', 'Coal Miner's Daughter') can begin writing her Oscar acceptance speech right now. Her portrayal of Ruth displays the pride and seething anger, but keeps her human throughout. She exhibits pure, raw emotion that strikes directly inside you leaving a knot in your stomach and in your throat. Her performance is truly breathtaking and so emotionally visceral to watch.[/color][/font] [font=Arial][color=darkred]Wilkinson ('The Full Monty', 'The Patriot') plays Matt with passive-aggressive doubt and repression. He dominates in any scene he is in and takes the audience on a wide range of emotions. He has a commanding presence and compliments Spacek's Ruth nicely.[/color][/font] [font=Arial][color=darkred]Perhaps the greatest thing Tomei ('My Cousin Vinny', 'Slums of Beverly Hills') was known for was miraculously winning an Oscar and dumbfounding a nation. With 'In the Bedroom' she is given the ubiquitous "And" credit at the end of the opening cast list. She has less to work with and less screen time to work it, fully earning the "And"' credit she has.[/color][/font] [font=Arial][color=darkred]Todd Field is an actor-turned-director and has appeared in such a wide array of films from 'Ruby in Paradise' to 'Twister' to 'Eyes Wide Shut'. Field has layered his film with rich symbolism and an intelligent, patient pace. Most of the action in movies is centered on what is going on in a scene, but the most telling moments of 'In the Bedroom' are what are not going on in the scenes. Field creates such an intimate portrait that the camera almost turns into another character, catching the lingering silences and the burgeoning inner turmoil. Field also adapted the screenplay from a short story by Andre Dubus, whom he dedicates the film to.[/color][/font] [font=Arial][color=darkred]'In the Bedroom' is not going to be for everyone. Some will find it slow and some might even find it boring. As it stands, it is a powerful film on the study of loss that grips you and refuses to let go. You will feel all the blame, jealousy, anger, and pain of this family and for such emotions to resonate from the screen to the audience is a great achievement.[/color][/font] [font=Arial][color=darkred]Nate's Grade: A[/color][/font] -
Bradley W
In the Bedroom is unlike any drama I have ever seen, it starts off looking like a romance film but soon its true colors form about 30 minutes into the movie. This movie really focuses on the nature of revenge and grief of a loved one, and I had to ask my question "what would I… More
In the Bedroom is unlike any drama I have ever seen, it starts off looking like a romance film but soon its true colors form about 30 minutes into the movie. This movie really focuses on the nature of revenge and grief of a loved one, and I had to ask my question "what would I do if my child was murdered and nobody did anything about it?" In this life we are always faced with challenges like grief and there are different ways we can deal with it, like drinking or blaming it on others and this film shows a nature of humanity that I have never seen. But another pure beauty this film has is the characters and the performances from the cast that plays them. Sissy Spacek plays (in my opinion) the best performance of her whole career, she is every mother who loves her child and seeing that pain she goes through is just sad and we pity her. Tom Wilkinson is every father who tought his son the ways of life and how a father and son have a bond like no other, and every scene where he had to talk about his son was just so painful. What makes this story so effective is that we get to know these characters before he is killed, they are typical parents and he is their son with a dilemma of fating a older woman with a ex-husband who is insane, and that is what catches the eye of a true film lover. The last 30 minutes of this film were incredible in my opinion, it picks up its slow pace and things truly get intense and I loved it. In the Bedroom is one of the most effective dramas I have ever seen, it works in so many ways that it just catches the audience with the twist of events that occur and it does not become a romance, but a tragedy. I loved this film and it deserved all the praise it was given. -
Ryan R
2002 Best Picture and Screenplay nominee In The Bedroom is a perfectly scripted story about a normal American family in a small town that suffers through an extraordinary tragedy. The story is very tight and focused on the family, and that allows us as viewers to fully grasp the… More
2002 Best Picture and Screenplay nominee In The Bedroom is a perfectly scripted story about a normal American family in a small town that suffers through an extraordinary tragedy. The story is very tight and focused on the family, and that allows us as viewers to fully grasp the sincerity needed by the actors to pull of their performances. Tom Wilkinson is an underrated (for lack of a better term) gem in this industry. His portrayal of a father in a terrible situation, Matt Fowler, was spot on, not that I would know. Sissy Spacek was also great as his wife, Ruth. The two of them were fantastic, and well deserving of the Oscar nominations they received. The other Oscar nominated performance was Marissa Tomei as Natalie. I've never been a fan of hers, but I have to admit she was brilliant. This is a sad story, I won't summarize for fear of spoiling something. What I will say is that it's not the most entertaining film, so patience is required to sit through it. But once you do, you'll be blown away with the quality of work these people put together. -
Jeffrey M
Not as moving or thought provoking as Field's Little Children, In the Bedroom is still a well done, authentic drama, albeit with a very slow pace. Sissy Spacek and Tom Wilkinson are both excellent, and definitely make up for any weaknesses of the film. -
Christopher O
A frank and honest look at how grief can affect people and make them do the unthinkable. Todd Field brillantly tells the story of a couple in a small New England Town who have to face their demons head on after tragedy strikes their family. Tom Wilkinson is out of this world as the… More
A frank and honest look at how grief can affect people and make them do the unthinkable. Todd Field brillantly tells the story of a couple in a small New England Town who have to face their demons head on after tragedy strikes their family. Tom Wilkinson is out of this world as the town doctor and a mild mannered man who becomes broken with rage and sadness, Sissy Spacek is also fantastic as his wife the local music teacher. Marisa Tomei also shines a single mother of two boys. A film hard to watch but engrossing all the same. -
Joseph E
This is most likely one of the best dramas ever made. Career performances from the whole cast. This is not a slow film, your just most likely not into a Dramatic type of movie. See, I enjoy dramas, that is why I liked this film. If you like Jackass, or The Ringer, this isn't… More
This is most likely one of the best dramas ever made. Career performances from the whole cast. This is not a slow film, your just most likely not into a Dramatic type of movie. See, I enjoy dramas, that is why I liked this film. If you like Jackass, or The Ringer, this isn't the film for you. -
Andrew F
A tension-building film with great performances that certainly does not disappoint. -
Alec B
Todd Field' bare bones total realism approach to the material is the best thing about this film. In this hands of a lesser director the material could have been sensationalized, but he wisely downplays most of the action. The performances are really amazing, particularly Tom… More
Todd Field' bare bones total realism approach to the material is the best thing about this film. In this hands of a lesser director the material could have been sensationalized, but he wisely downplays most of the action. The performances are really amazing, particularly Tom Wilkinson who proves here why he is one of the best actors alive today. -
Juli R
This is a drama about a young man who has a summer romance with an older, newly divorced mother. The subplot is about the young man's parents and the strain a tragedy puts on their marriage.
Cast
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Sissy Spacekas Ruth Fowler -
Tom Wilkinsonas Matt Fowler -
Nick Stahlas Frank Fowler
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Marisa Tomeias Natalie Strout -
William Mapotheras Richard Strout -
William Wiseas Willis Grinell
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Celia Westonas Katie Grinell -
Karen Allenas Marla Keyes -
Veronica Cartwrightas Minister on television
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Don Lewisas Bridge Operator -
Andrea Walkeras Waitress -
Justin Ashforthas Tim
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Daran Norrisas Red sox replay -
Christopher Adamsas Duncan Strout -
Sara Armstrongas Chorus
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Elly Barksdaleas Chorus -
Erin Barksdaleas Chorus -
Daniel Baxter-Leahyas Rockland T-ball
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Rebecca Benneras Rockland T-ball -
Bethany Berryas Rockland T-ball -
Hope Berryas Rockland T-ball
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David Blairas Marlboro Man -
Terry A. Burgessas District Attorney -
John Campanelloas Reporter
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Brandon Carletonas Rockland T-ball -
Lisa Carltonas Rockland T-ball -
Kevin Chapmanas Tim's Friend
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Sam Cousinsas Rockland T-ball -
Coomenic Cuccinello IIIas Rockland T-ball -
Bill Dawkinsas Elwyn Adamson
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Harriet Dawkinsas Alma Adamson -
Robert Demkowiczas Reporter -
Deborah Derecktoras Janelle
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Ryan Eckeras Rockland T-ball -
Alida P. Fieldas Young Gymnast -
Henry Fieldas Rockland T-ball/Young Frank
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The Honorable Joseph Fieldas Judge -
Rachel Freemanas Rockland T-ball -
Shyann Gauthieras Rockland T-ball
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Gwendolyn Gilchristas Chorus -
Shauneen Groutas Chorus -
Brian Hagleyas Rockland T-ball
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Jackie Hagleyas Rockland T-ball -
Diane E. Hamlinas Davis' Assistant -
Daniel Hendricksas Rockland T-ball
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Adah Holmanas Chorus -
Kenney Dale Johnsonas Rockland T-ball -
Jessie Lanoueas Chorus
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Alicia Laplantas Chorus -
Iris Leslieas Chorus -
Matthew Maxwellas Rockland T-ball
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Francis Mazzeoas Rockland T-ball -
Elisabeth McClureas Elderly Woman -
Jared Mekinas Rockland T-ball
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Joshua Millsas Rockland T-ball -
Camden Munsonas Jason Strout -
W. Clapham Murrayas Carl
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Chelsea Peasleyas Rockland T-ball -
Eric Rahkonenas Rockland T-ball -
Doug Richas Fork lift Operator
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Natalie Russellas Rockland T-ball -
Misty Seekinsas Rockland T-ball -
Tyler Shane Smith-Campbellas Rockland T-ball
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Parker Spearas Rockland T-ball -
Philip Spearingas Rockland T-ball -
Ben Staplesas Rockland T-ball
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Owen Thompsonas Rockland T-ball -
Erica Towle-Powersas Chorus -
Mackenzie Tuckeras Rockland T-ball
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Jonathan Walshas Father McCasslin -
Evanne Weirichas Director -
Frank T. Wellsas Henry
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Nichole Wimbiscusas Chorus -
Robin Wimbiscusas Performance Coordinator -
Anna Winsoras Chorus
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Harold Witheeas Grocery Clerk -
Ron Russellas Rockland T-ball -
Samuel Johnsonas Rockland T-ball
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