Chris Messina, Chris Parnell, Darrell Hammond

A sweet, hilarious and slightly subversive romantic comedy that examines the issues of marriage, monogamy and whether "I do" is the only path to life-long love and happiness. Ira Black, is brillia...( read more  read more... )nt, neurotic, Jewish and has so many issues he can't fit them into 12 years of analysis. He can't finish his dissertation, he can't commit to his longtime girlfriend, and he's incapable of making a decision, even if it's just what to order at the diner. Abby Willoughby, is a free spirit who's better at solving her friends' problems at the gym than selling memberships. When the two meet, the impossible happens: they fall in love, meet each other's parents and decide to get married, all in a few breathless hours. And life is good, until Ira finds out that Abby is a divorcee... two times over. Despite even more therapy, Ira can't help but feel that their marriage was built on a lie. They divorce quietly, while cracks grow wider in their parents' marriages. Ira's gorgeous analyst mother Arlene starts a secret liaison with Abby's charming voiceover artist father Michael, while Abby's mother Lynne wonders why she's no longer attractive to her husband and Ira's father Sy pretends not to notice. Of course, Ira soon realizes he's miserable without Abby. He asks her forgiveness and they marry again, this time making more realistic vows. But Ira's jealousy issues and Abby's free-floating tendencies lead him to reconnect with his ex-girlfriend. When Abby finds out about their parents' infidelities, the three couples converge for a group therapy session with all of their therapists. Ira and Abby ultimately realize that they were meant to be together. But divorced. Because marriage just isn't for them...

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68% liked it

41 critics

R, 1 hr. 40 min.

Directed by: Robert Cary

Release Date: June 23, 2006

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DVD Release Date: January 29, 2008

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  • October 12, 2007
    A plethora of neuroses cannot replace legitimate humor or heart.
  • September 10, 2009
    I watch this now whenever I have a bad day because it cheers me up to no end. Abby perhaps outshines Sam from Garden State and I enjoy Ira's paranoia.
  • November 22, 2009
    Painfully pretentious at times, but there is a genuine likeability to both the main characters, and the subplots are handled well. The performances are uniformly good, and Westfeldt is cute as a button without being overbearing (somehow). I enjoyed it.
  • August 16, 2009
    One of my all time favorites! Other than slight over use of the f-word, its fabulous. The story is realistic and a great contrast to chic-flicks and fairy tales. Jennifer Westfeldt is an incredible writer. Judith Light and Robert Klein are especially well matched. The scene with ...( read more)all of the therapists and analysts in a circle is absolute perfect meshuga.
  • August 1, 2009
    Quite simply - a sweet, humourous, charming romance.

    I really found this to be a pleasant movie-watching experience with its When-Harry-Met-Sallyesquness. (How's that for a desciptor?) It allowed the characters to be slightly more dimensional than your typical romantic comed...( read more)y but managed to keep things on the light side just the same.

    PS - I was pleasantly surprised to see Fred Willard in it. I find him enjoyable.
  • July 23, 2009
    Funny, but depressing what a strange twist on marriage..lol!
  • January 3, 2009
    Great writing and performances. Definitely worth seeing.
  • November 5, 2008
    LOVED IT LOVED IT LOVED IT!
  • August 8, 2008
    this movie is adorable. i love it. a lot.
  • June 10, 2008
    I wish I could watch every movie ever made but I sadly don't have the time. I'm not interested in this movie because I don't think I'll like it or don't know enough about it to think I might like it. I may still end up seeing it some day though.

Critic Reviews


October 5, 2007
Moira MacDonald, Seattle Times

Ira & Abby, in its breezy, low-key way, will make audiences happy -- something [director] Westfeldt already knows how to do. full review

September 18, 2007
Joe Morgenstern, Wall Street Journal

The nicest surprise of the week -- not just nice but amazing -- is a comedy called Ira and Abby. full review

September 9, 2007
Nick Schager, Slant Magazine

Amidst its inquiry into the feasibility of monogamy, marriage, and true love, Ira & Abby raises a more pressing issue: Is this all there is to mainstream indie filmmaking? full review

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