Albert Brooks, Carol Kane, Desmond Harrington

A 17-year-old girl has a troubled relationship with a 49-year-old man.

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75% liked it

816 ratings

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53% liked it

79 critics

R, 109 min.

Directed by: Christine Lahti

Release Date: April 1, 2002

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DVD Release Date: April 23, 2002

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  • September 27, 2008
    A 17 year old Goth teenager and a 49 year old clothes salesman develop a relationship. I fell asleep during the last half hour of this.
  • January 20, 2008
    My type of movie - people (in this case a Goth chick and a dress salesman) listening to each other and growing emotionally.
  • November 1, 2007
    When I rented this movie I wasn't sure what I would get. This turned out to be a pleasant surprise. A very touching story, nicely acted. Quite moving. Keep some hankies nearby, my guess is you will need them. Highly recommended.
  • October 9, 2007
    I cannot STAND Albert Brooks...he just irritates me! This could have been a better film if he had not starred in it.
  • September 6, 2009
    A fine Albert Brooks film-a little more sentimental than others- but still contains the wonderful humor for which he is known. I really liked the film-not fully understanding J's macabre persona but enjoying the relationship blossom with R. Leeleee Sobieski is a fine young actres...( read more)s-I have'nt seen many of her films but will be looking from here on.Is it just me or is her voice EXACTLY like helen Hunt's?
  • May 30, 2009
    The decent and real selfless love and commitment of an older man transforms a neglected and rebellious teenager into a beautiful, loving young woman.
  • April 1, 2009
    Showcases how spoiled American girls can get! Leelee is hot!
  • January 28, 2009
    it's not a gross 'dateline catch a perv' sleazy movie...it's bout real friendship..as odd as it llooks..a teenage punk and a straight laced stiff form a sweeet bond.
  • September 3, 2008
    this was actually a pretty sweet story.
  • August 14, 2008
    Fantastic charming movie. Loved the characters.

Critic Reviews


October 12, 2001
David Edelstein, Slate

What looked like a quirky character study suddenly congealed. full review

October 12, 2001
Moira MacDonald, Seattle Times

A touching tale of friendship and family, its sentimentality cut by the honesty of its performances. full review

October 12, 2001
Liam Lacey, Globe and Mail

A small movie full of good intentions and wildly erratic execution. full review

October 12, 2001
Roger Ebert, Chicago Sun-Times

These two characters are so particular and sympathetic that the whole movie could simply observe them. full review

October 11, 2001
Claudia Puig, USA Today

Predictable and manipulative, complete with a clichéd Hollywood tearjerker ending. full review

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  • ambercatgoddess
    February 24, 2007
    A movie like this doesn''t come along all the time.This was a unique movie with incredible actors and actresses.The story just grabbed me on a personal level.I understand being labeled as *goth* and i have piercings and weird hair colors.I have dealt with people looking at me like i am crazy and sick and need help.I have had the parents drag their children away from me like im evil.

    I have also met people that are classified as *normal* scoff at me and then get to know me and then become my friends,so i really related to this movie.They actually played real underground goth bands like switchblade symphony which was suprising.Normally they play Nine Inch Nails and consider themselves cutting edge.

    So go watch this movie.You will like it.

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