American culture is so often based on the little lies we tell each other to help us get through life --- "You look great." "This pie is very tasty. " "You're so talented." It's so ingrained in everyone's fiber, that we often don't… More
American culture is so often based on the little lies we tell each other to help us get through life --- "You look great." "This pie is very tasty. " "You're so talented." It's so ingrained in everyone's fiber, that we often don't notice it. That behavior, however, can turn dangerous. We want to protect each other from the cold hard truths so much, that we deny what's right in front of us. We like to prop up certain people as our idols, but forget the complicated person underneath. Sometimes the football hero isn't Mr. Perfect.
For me, this gets to the heart of this remarkable documentary, THE TILLMAN STORY. A story familiar to many - professional football star, Pat Tillman, quits his career to fight in the war following 9/11 is met with an unfortunate end. Killed by friendly fire, the military and the government cover it up to make his death seem more heroic. He's used as a prop, an icon for the ever-illusive "Great American". What nobody expected, however, was that the Tillman family, especially the matriarch, Dannie Tillman, was the wrong family upon which to foist these lies. If this were fiction, the tagline for the movie poster writes itself: YOU FUCKED WITH THE WRONG FAMILY!
Unfortunately, it's not fiction, and what we have here is on one level, a very tragic tale of loss, but on the other, the story about the death of American Truth. It's in this way that the film really spoke to me. It seems that not only do the Tillmans want the truth told, they want those in power to stop the lies they tell in order to keep us comfortable. They want us to see the real consequences of war - the coffins, the bloody battles, the grieving families. In one incredible moment, one of Pat Tillman's brothers gets up at his funeral, beer in hand, t-shirt and jeans on, and tells the illustrious crowd, who have invoked God and Country in their pompous speeches that his brother didn't believe in God, that he's not in Heaven, and that he's just "fucking dead". He not only wanted people to know the real Pat, but he wanted them to stop using his brother for their own personal agenda.
This is the story of a REAL American Family. Flawed. Angry. Honest. This film is a primal scream at the very foundation upon which this country has been built, and is essential viewing for anyone who is tired of the lies.