This Boy's Life (1993)
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75% of critics liked it
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77% of users liked it
(21,794 ratings)
A single mother and her difficult son find family life isn't necessarily all it's cracked up to be in this drama adapted from writer and professor Tobias Wolff's 1989 memoir of the same name. Nomadic, flaky Caroline (Ellen Barkin) just wants to settle down in one place, find a decent… More A single mother and her difficult son find family life isn't necessarily all it's cracked up to be in this drama adapted from writer and professor Tobias Wolff's 1989 memoir of the same name. Nomadic, flaky Caroline (Ellen Barkin) just wants to settle down in one place, find a decent guy, and provide a better home for her handful of a son, Toby (Leonardo DiCaprio). When she moves to Seattle and meets the respectful, respectable Dwight Hansen (Robert DeNiro), she thinks she's got it made. Toby, however, feels differently after spending a few months with Dwight and his children and away from Caroline. The boy's stepfather-to-be seems to want to mold Toby into a better person, but to do so he emotionally, verbally, and physically abuses the kid. The marriage proceeds, and soon Caroline, too, recognizes Dwight's need to dominate everyone around him. She sticks with it, though, convinced it's the best thing for her son, and several years of dysfunction ensue. During this time, Tobias befriends another misfit, the possibly homosexual young Jonah (Arthur Gayle), while continuing to chafe under the yoke of his repressive stepfather. This Boy's Life provided the first lead role for future superstar DiCaprio. The film was written by Robert Getchell, who also penned such mother/son fare as Alice Doesn't Live Here Anymore and The Client. ~ Brian J. Dillard, Rovi
- Directed By
- Michael Caton-Jones
- Genres
- Drama
- In Theaters
- Jan 1, 1993 Wide
- Studio
- Warner Home Video
Critic Reviews
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Richard Corliss, TIME Magazine
Something more subtle is going on in Wolff's book, a confrontation with a richer, quirkier past and his emerging self that the movie too often brushes aside.
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Jonathan Rosenbaum, Chicago Reader
The leads work overtime to make their characters and their relationships pungent, believable, and moving.
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Todd McCarthy, Variety
Nicely acted but excessively bland.
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Wally Hammond, Time Out
It's a rites-of-passage drama with the kind of period small-town setting that the director is making his own.
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Vincent Canby, New York Times
This Boy's Life is so steeped in period detail (music, cars, television shows, hair styles) that Toby and Caroline's sad, bumbling search for freedom seems secondary, almost impolite to the decor.
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Cast
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Robert De Niro
as Dwight Hansen
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Ellen Barkin
as Caroline Wolff
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Leonardo DiCaprio
as Toby Wolff
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Jonah Blechman
as Arthur Gayle
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Eliza Dushku
as Pearl
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Chris Cooper
as Roy
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Carla Gugino
as Norma
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Zachary Ansley
as Skipper
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Michael Bacall
as Terry Taylor
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Ken Camroux
as 2nd Place Shooter
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Tracey Ellis
as Kathy
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Gerrit Graham
as Mr. Howard
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Kathy Kinney
as Marian
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Thomas Kopache
as Geiger Counter Vendor
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Robert Munns
as Ticket Seller
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Tristan Tait
as Jerry Huff
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Lee Wilkof
as Principal Shippy
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Stephen E. Miller
as Target Ranger
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Sean Murray
as Jimmy Voorhees
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Frank C. Turner
as Truck Driver
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Jason Horst
as Oscar Booker
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Dwight McFee
as Voice in Crowd
- Owens Hill
- Rachel Abroms
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Bill Dow
as Vice Principal
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Tobey Maguire
as Chuck Bolger
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Deanna Milligan
as Silver Sister #1

