Aidan Quinn, Colm Meaney, Donal Donnelly

Call this an Irish family reunion, onscreen and off. The brothers Quinn--debuting writer-director Paul, actor Aidan, and cinematographer extraordinaire Declan--pooled their talents on a movie about ...( read more  read more... )a middle-aged schoolteacher (James Caan) who makes a pilgrimage back to the Ould Sod, where he hopes to discover the truth about his mysterious dad. What he digs up, in flashback, is a Romeo-Juliet love affair blighted by class, religion, and sheer human meanness. Turns out Caan's father (Aidan Quinn, bulked up out of his usual lean good looks) was a farmhand--slow, inarticulate, pure of heart--who fell in love above his station. Vividly beautiful Moya Farrelly plays a nonconforming college girl on vacation, first amusing herself by drawing Quinn's locked-down soul into chats, dancing, and friendship, then coming to love the complex man she has freed from loneliness. But Irish angst must be served: Moya's unloving, jealous mother (Gina Moxley) and a sex-hating clergyman (Stephen Rea, wonderfully over the top) set their sights on killing the couple's happiness. In contrast to this old drama, the present-day framing story is distracting, even irritating, and cameo appearances by Colm Meaney, Brendan Gleeson, and John Cusack stick out like... well, charming guest shots. We want Paul Quinn to stay focused on the Thomas Hardy tragedy that beats at the heart of This Is My Father so that we can have more time to savor the strong, heartbreaking performances by Farrelly and his brother, backed by Declan (Leaving Las Vegas) Quinn's beautiful vision of the rich, dark world of Ireland past. --Kathleen Murphy

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R, 121 min.

Directed by: Paul Quinn

Release Date: June 1, 1998

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DVD Release Date: October 5, 1999

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  • May 4, 2008
    OUTSTANDING!!
  • February 13, 2009
    i am of irish heritige so was interested int his film....loved it got quite emotionally involved until bad weather stoped sky working so missed the end. am going to buy it today just to see the last 10mins but think it will b worth it
  • February 17, 2008
    one of the best irish films ever
  • January 22, 2008
    A highly underated film about love and family. Being Irish myself & interested in my own geneology this is perhaps something that I have waiting for me. The story surrounding the flashback can be distracting at times but it is not without merit & took away little from the film. ...( read more)A gem to behold...
  • August 8, 2007
    just a beautiful irish story
  • July 24, 2007
    One of the FINEST films EVER made
  • June 18, 2007
    heartbeaking ending to the film
  • May 6, 2007
    Sad, but Aidan looking good
  • March 16, 2007
    This was a beautiful story & well told, well acted & beautifully filmed. In searching for the truth about his Irish father - you find that (like most of us) the son was looking for some truths about himself. The search proves to be bittersweet but still worth the search.
  • February 19, 2007
    Loved this film. Aidan Quinn is excellent cry everytime I see it.

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January 1, 2000
Roger Ebert, Chicago Sun-Times

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  • MorpheusOne
    January 22, 2008
    A highly underated film about love and family. Being Irish myself & interested in my own geneology this is perhaps something that I have waiting for me. The story surrounding the flashback can be distracting at times but it is not without merit & took away little from the film. A gem to behold...
  • margocarr
    July 24, 2007
    A revelation from start to finish. Just the most heartbreaking wonderful love story. I recommend it wholeheartedly to anyone do yourself a favour Rent BUY or just get to SEE IT!

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