This movie is captivating. The performances are excellent and the drama of the characters' lives is too much not to take it straight to heart
Mark Ruffalo, Laura Dern, Peter Krause
An indiscretion between two close friends tears down their respective marriages.
DVD Release Date: December 14, 2004
Stats: 381 reviews
Flixster Reviews (381)
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July 24, 2008
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February 10, 2008
It is a depressing movie about decaying marriages. Two couples who are best friends with each other find attention in the other couple's spouse.
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December 8, 2007
This film, like In the Bedroom in 2001, takes an Andre Dubus short story and makes it into one intense movie. The acting in this movie is outstanding, and the stakes are high in every scene. Expecting a quasi-Rom-Com, we got a Rom-Dram (thanks for that one, Sid!), but it's well w...( read more)
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August 10, 2007
I have zero experience with marriage first hand, but these four actors made a great attempt at portraying the issues that must go on in married life. Some of the scenarios were far fetched and I'm inclined to be both fascinated/jealous of Laura Dern because she is Ben Harper's g...( read more)
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November 21, 2009
Drama about two failing marriages with Mark Raffalo and Naomi Watts, but the best thing in this movie is Laura Dern.
The story has been told only too often lately, so I didn't connect to what was going on the screen, the characters weren't all that interesting or nice, but I shou...( read more) -
November 5, 2009
This movie shows a powerful portrait of two couples whose marriages are going to break; has an enormous power and tells some uncomfortable truths. The mood is very heavy and dense, and the presented drama is very complex. After the film it's like a kick in the stomach that stays ...( read more)
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March 18, 2009
Very dark story about infidelity that's well-written and acted but like all those other movies we see at least twice a years about couples who cross the line.
Critic Reviews
The acting is fervent, and the insights cut deep. full review
We Don't Live Here Anymore is a revelation. One rarely sees American-made movies that are so unafraid to explore emotional cruelty and portray the consequences without positing easy answers or attachi... full review
The murk and mystery of marriage, adultery and friendship have seldom been illuminated with such harsh precision. full review
The film, sometimes talky and overemphatic, is also literate, erotic, brutally funny and touched by brilliance in its quartet of live-wire performances. full review
Comments
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August 12, 2008It's a sad thing that they couldn't talk to each other; it would have solved everything. What's sad, it happens everyday, in every 3rd house you see.
I liked this movie, even though it was slow.
Take care all,
William
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