David Thornton, Joey Kern, Joshua Spafford

When two college students, Sam and Thea, meet Coles at a party, their mutual attraction is immediate, leading to a passionate and awkward night together, and the onset of an intensely charged bond. As...( read more  read more... ) they continue to push the sexual boundaries of their friendship, however, they are tested by Sam and Coles' incipient romance and Thea's increasing recklessness, until the relationship dissolves amid a cloud of fear, resentment and mistrust. Eight years later they reunite. An animator for a high-profile ad agency, Coles now lives with Claire, his girlfriend of five years. Thea is happily married to Miles, with whom she owns a flourishing restaurant. And Sam has just returned to Manhattan after working in London where she recently broke off her engagement. Yet upon reconnecting, the three are drawn back into the complicated dynamic that defined their relationship from the start and are forced to confront the true meaning of commitment and love.

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R, 1 hr. 31 min.

Directed by: Austin Chick

Release Date: April 11, 2003

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DVD Release Date: July 29, 2003

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  • January 3, 2008
    A favorite.
  • April 25, 2006
    This movie doesn't develop the characters enough to want to care. Throw in some sex scenes and people with no personalities and the story goes nowhere. It does a bit of a turn around towards the end, but by then it's too late.
  • June 22, 2009
    berbat bi film. issiz adamin amerikan versiyonu. filmdeki herkes kezban.
  • June 14, 2009
    I only watched this movie because Ruffalo was on the cast list. But I must say I was very disappointed.
  • April 13, 2009
    depressing because it is so realistic. ho hum story....pretty good acting.
  • February 23, 2009
    The only positive thing about this movie is Mark Ruffalo
  • December 23, 2008
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  • July 3, 2008
    its about a scientific born boy who wakes up in the forest naked not knowning what he is or what has happened to him and then taken in by the the Trggers family
  • March 12, 2008
    It has Mark Ruffalo of course I wanna watch it:)
  • January 18, 2008
    A very adult, very smart examination of the nature of love and sex in modern relationships. Not always easy to watch with plenty of awkward moments, just like real-life relationships. Mark Ruffalo is the anchor in this one, owning the role of a man who can't decide between real...( read more)ity and "what if". Nice to see David Thornton in a role where he doesn't play an unlikeable jerk for a change.

Critic Reviews


May 2, 2003
Moira MacDonald, Seattle Times

Though the chemistry's a little off in XX/XY, Ruffalo and Wright make it a journey worth taking. full review

May 2, 2003
Mick LaSalle, San Francisco Chronicle

A sexy, emotionally true portrait of a handful of people wrestling with their impulses and trying to find their way to happiness. full review

May 1, 2003
Steven Rea, Philadelphia Inquirer

Although the script, by Chick (a Sarah Lawrence alumnus), can be painfully old hat, this little indie's cast goes a long way toward making the story interesting, even compelling. full review

April 25, 2003
Ty Burr, Boston Globe

If this were a cocktail party, you'd be back home with a good book already. full review

April 25, 2003
Roger Ebert, Chicago Sun-Times

The film has a rare insight into the mechanism by which some men would rather pursue happiness than obtain it. full review

April 11, 2003
Claudia Puig, USA Today

Some moments in XX/XY ring true, and the honesty exposed is revelatory. But, like some relationships, this drama can be tough to endure. full review

March 25, 2003
Nick Schager, Filmcritic.com

Chick's self-effacing screenplay and the conviction of his actors' performances can't overcome the lack of chemistry between Ruffalo and Stange. full review

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